anarchist_nomad: (Baby Giles -- two weeks old)
( Oct. 28th, 2008 10:23 am)
[livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I have four cats[*]. The two girls -- Stumpy and Chirp -- live near Chicago, at the Event Horizon, with their uncle [livejournal.com profile] gyades. The other two -- The Boy and Giles -- live with us at Skullcrusher Mountain in Oxford. The Boy was imported from the States in 2006, whereas Giles (see icon) is a born and bred British cat.

He proved his heritage yesterday. [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat left a cup of tea momentarily unattended in the living room. When we turned around, Giles was helping himself -- happily lapping the tea up out of the mug. Oi!

While I am ruminating on contrasts between the two sides of the pond, can somebody please explain to me the difference between "while" and "whilst"? Stateside, I don't know anybody who uses "whilst". Here, however, I see both in fairly common usage. When is one appropriate and when is the other? One hundred points to the person who gives me the best explanation!


[*] Not counting Nona, who lives with [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism in Nebraska now.
anarchist_nomad: (Baby Giles -- two weeks old)
( Oct. 28th, 2008 10:23 am)
[livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I have four cats[*]. The two girls -- Stumpy and Chirp -- live near Chicago, at the Event Horizon, with their uncle [livejournal.com profile] gyades. The other two -- The Boy and Giles -- live with us at Skullcrusher Mountain in Oxford. The Boy was imported from the States in 2006, whereas Giles (see icon) is a born and bred British cat.

He proved his heritage yesterday. [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat left a cup of tea momentarily unattended in the living room. When we turned around, Giles was helping himself -- happily lapping the tea up out of the mug. Oi!

While I am ruminating on contrasts between the two sides of the pond, can somebody please explain to me the difference between "while" and "whilst"? Stateside, I don't know anybody who uses "whilst". Here, however, I see both in fairly common usage. When is one appropriate and when is the other? One hundred points to the person who gives me the best explanation!


[*] Not counting Nona, who lives with [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism in Nebraska now.
anarchist_nomad: (One of my babies)
»

Six

( Sep. 12th, 2008 03:02 pm)
I'm confused. How is it that my little kittens are six years old now?

When [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I lived in Arizona, we fed the stray cats at our apartment complex. Some of those feral cats eventually warmed up to us enough to let us touch them. Six years ago yesterday, one of those kitties decided that she wanted to come into our apartment. I was in Japan at the time, but [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat noticed that this kitty looked like she had swallowed a basketball! Very, very pregnant!

We talked and decided that the best thing to do would be to let the kitty come inside and lock her in the second bathroom. The isolation would keep our beloved Foxy and Totoro safe, in case she was carrying anything, and we could then contact a local shelter to take her so that her babies could be born indoors. We were concerned that she would otherwise give birth in the heat of the Sonoran desert -- still rather intense, even in September -- and that most of the kittens would not survive.

Six years ago today, I received a phone call from [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat shortly before I was ready to go to bed in Japan. Looking at the clock, I quickly worked out what time it was for her, sixteen hours earlier. It was very nearly time for her class to start.

"Why aren't you on your way to class?" I asked of her.

"Because the kittens started coming out," was her reply.

"Oh." I paused. "Yeah, that's a good reason."

Despite Chesh's attempts to keep the mother in the bathtub, she had insisted on giving birth in the litterbox... which contained clumping litter! The first two kittens were covered in litter and Chesh needed to snatch them away from their mum to break the sack under running water before they suffocated! Whoops! Momma cat wasn't so happy about having her newborns snatched away, but it did the trick. The second two came into this world less eventfully. In under twenty-four hours, we had gone from being a household of two cats to a household of seven!

Five months later, in February 2003, we flew the mother -- whom we had named Rocks[*] -- to New York City and gave her into the care of the lovely [livejournal.com profile] ms_redcat... where she still lives today. After failing to find homes for the kittens, we decided to keep all four: Stumpy, Chirp, Nona, and The Boy. Six years later, The Boy lives with us here in my secret lair on Skullcrusher Mountain, while Stumpy and Chirp live with their uncle [livejournal.com profile] gyades at my other home -- the Event Horizon[**]. Nona stayed with us for five years, then moved to Nebraska with [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism last August. We did not want to let her go, but she clearly loved [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism best, and it seemed cruel to separate them.

How did the tiny kitty in my icon above -- The Boy as a kitten -- turn into the moose sleeping on the bed in the next room? Can it really be six years now since he was that small? Unbelievable! As the amazing [livejournal.com profile] resourceress likes to say: Time's fun when you're having flies!

[*] Because, although sweet, she is as dumb as a box of rocks.

[**] With plans to import them to Oxford in January 2009.


anarchist_nomad: (One of my babies)
»

Six

( Sep. 12th, 2008 03:02 pm)
I'm confused. How is it that my little kittens are six years old now?

When [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I lived in Arizona, we fed the stray cats at our apartment complex. Some of those feral cats eventually warmed up to us enough to let us touch them. Six years ago yesterday, one of those kitties decided that she wanted to come into our apartment. I was in Japan at the time, but [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat noticed that this kitty looked like she had swallowed a basketball! Very, very pregnant!

We talked and decided that the best thing to do would be to let the kitty come inside and lock her in the second bathroom. The isolation would keep our beloved Foxy and Totoro safe, in case she was carrying anything, and we could then contact a local shelter to take her so that her babies could be born indoors. We were concerned that she would otherwise give birth in the heat of the Sonoran desert -- still rather intense, even in September -- and that most of the kittens would not survive.

Six years ago today, I received a phone call from [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat shortly before I was ready to go to bed in Japan. Looking at the clock, I quickly worked out what time it was for her, sixteen hours earlier. It was very nearly time for her class to start.

"Why aren't you on your way to class?" I asked of her.

"Because the kittens started coming out," was her reply.

"Oh." I paused. "Yeah, that's a good reason."

Despite Chesh's attempts to keep the mother in the bathtub, she had insisted on giving birth in the litterbox... which contained clumping litter! The first two kittens were covered in litter and Chesh needed to snatch them away from their mum to break the sack under running water before they suffocated! Whoops! Momma cat wasn't so happy about having her newborns snatched away, but it did the trick. The second two came into this world less eventfully. In under twenty-four hours, we had gone from being a household of two cats to a household of seven!

Five months later, in February 2003, we flew the mother -- whom we had named Rocks[*] -- to New York City and gave her into the care of the lovely [livejournal.com profile] ms_redcat... where she still lives today. After failing to find homes for the kittens, we decided to keep all four: Stumpy, Chirp, Nona, and The Boy. Six years later, The Boy lives with us here in my secret lair on Skullcrusher Mountain, while Stumpy and Chirp live with their uncle [livejournal.com profile] gyades at my other home -- the Event Horizon[**]. Nona stayed with us for five years, then moved to Nebraska with [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism last August. We did not want to let her go, but she clearly loved [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism best, and it seemed cruel to separate them.

How did the tiny kitty in my icon above -- The Boy as a kitten -- turn into the moose sleeping on the bed in the next room? Can it really be six years now since he was that small? Unbelievable! As the amazing [livejournal.com profile] resourceress likes to say: Time's fun when you're having flies!

[*] Because, although sweet, she is as dumb as a box of rocks.

[**] With plans to import them to Oxford in January 2009.


anarchist_nomad: (Big Hair)
( Aug. 20th, 2008 04:55 pm)
In about an hour, I will head over to St. Cross for bell ringing practice. Meanwhile, I have a bit of spare time, which shall be devoted to an entry on nothing in particular!

Random the First: I am thrilled to announce that, at [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach's punting party on Sunday, I acquired my first 1p and 2p coins with the new designs on the reverse. I fully realise that caring about this makes me a dork, but that's okay! I also realise that I have a full uncirculated set of the new coins from the Royal Mint... but finding the ordinary ones is fun, too! To celebrate, I reorganised my coin collection. Don't look so surprised -- I did confess to being a dork!

Random the Second: I am delighted to announce, before I forget to do so, that [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I watched Batman Begins on Sunday evening, then drove to Birmingham after work on Monday to see The Dark Knight on the IMAX screen. I will freely admit that seeing it on the enormous screen does make a big difference... especially the scenes that were specially shot with IMAX cameras, rather than being simply adapted from ordinary film. It was good to watch the movies again, back to back; I continue to be impressed with the most recent Batman movie franchise. I cut my teeth on Batman -- my second favourite comic book character -- under Denny O'Neil's long editorial reign (1986 - 2000) and fully embrace his version of the hero. As such, these movies were really spot-on! Nice work! (And anyone who liked Heath Ledger's version of the Joker should hurry out to a comic shop to pick up Alan Moore's 1988 classic: The Killing Joke)

Random the Fourth: I have the cutest -- and most energetic! -- little kitten! He is omnipresent, simultaneously occupying all parts of Skullcrusher Mountain at once. He is also utterly adorable! Last night, as I wrote the previous entry, he sat on the back of the couch and ate my hair... then relaxed with his paws on my shoulder!

Random the Fifth: I am proud to announce that -- thanks to the lovely [livejournal.com profile] lunarbitch and the powers vested in her -- I have been upgraded from the Chia Pet Of Love to the One True Chia Pet Of Love! I am honoured and humbled by this distinction. I am also humbled by the big whomping tackle hug that accompanied the pronouncement!

And that, my friends, is all the news of the day!
anarchist_nomad: (Big Hair)
( Aug. 20th, 2008 04:55 pm)
In about an hour, I will head over to St. Cross for bell ringing practice. Meanwhile, I have a bit of spare time, which shall be devoted to an entry on nothing in particular!

Random the First: I am thrilled to announce that, at [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach's punting party on Sunday, I acquired my first 1p and 2p coins with the new designs on the reverse. I fully realise that caring about this makes me a dork, but that's okay! I also realise that I have a full uncirculated set of the new coins from the Royal Mint... but finding the ordinary ones is fun, too! To celebrate, I reorganised my coin collection. Don't look so surprised -- I did confess to being a dork!

Random the Second: I am delighted to announce, before I forget to do so, that [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I watched Batman Begins on Sunday evening, then drove to Birmingham after work on Monday to see The Dark Knight on the IMAX screen. I will freely admit that seeing it on the enormous screen does make a big difference... especially the scenes that were specially shot with IMAX cameras, rather than being simply adapted from ordinary film. It was good to watch the movies again, back to back; I continue to be impressed with the most recent Batman movie franchise. I cut my teeth on Batman -- my second favourite comic book character -- under Denny O'Neil's long editorial reign (1986 - 2000) and fully embrace his version of the hero. As such, these movies were really spot-on! Nice work! (And anyone who liked Heath Ledger's version of the Joker should hurry out to a comic shop to pick up Alan Moore's 1988 classic: The Killing Joke)

Random the Fourth: I have the cutest -- and most energetic! -- little kitten! He is omnipresent, simultaneously occupying all parts of Skullcrusher Mountain at once. He is also utterly adorable! Last night, as I wrote the previous entry, he sat on the back of the couch and ate my hair... then relaxed with his paws on my shoulder!

Random the Fifth: I am proud to announce that -- thanks to the lovely [livejournal.com profile] lunarbitch and the powers vested in her -- I have been upgraded from the Chia Pet Of Love to the One True Chia Pet Of Love! I am honoured and humbled by this distinction. I am also humbled by the big whomping tackle hug that accompanied the pronouncement!

And that, my friends, is all the news of the day!
anarchist_nomad: (Road trip!)
( Aug. 8th, 2008 06:36 pm)
Packed and ready to head out now. Before I shut down Ye Olde Laptope, here are a couple of irrelevant observations that I leave you with, gentle readers:

1) On further consideration, it would have probably been more accurate to name our kitten Sir Purr-A-Lot.[*]

2) Finding an anniversary card is made immeasurably more difficult when you (a) refuse to subscribe to the legal institution of marriage, and (b) you are polyamorous. Most cards start with something like: "To my Dear Wife"... and the ones that don't all seem to begin with "To My One True Love" Argh!

And on that note, it is time to pack up the [as yet unnamed] Rover and go!

[*] I am fighting off a truly horrendous pun here. What do you think, dear readers? Should I give in and make it?

Tags:
anarchist_nomad: (Road trip!)
( Aug. 8th, 2008 06:36 pm)
Packed and ready to head out now. Before I shut down Ye Olde Laptope, here are a couple of irrelevant observations that I leave you with, gentle readers:

1) On further consideration, it would have probably been more accurate to name our kitten Sir Purr-A-Lot.[*]

2) Finding an anniversary card is made immeasurably more difficult when you (a) refuse to subscribe to the legal institution of marriage, and (b) you are polyamorous. Most cards start with something like: "To my Dear Wife"... and the ones that don't all seem to begin with "To My One True Love" Argh!

And on that note, it is time to pack up the [as yet unnamed] Rover and go!

[*] I am fighting off a truly horrendous pun here. What do you think, dear readers? Should I give in and make it?

Tags:
Definitely back in England now. If, for some reason, I were confused about my location, the weather would be a dead giveaway. It is grey, chilly, and wet.

Ah, I miss Summer. At least I had nearly three weeks[*] of it while in the States! Indeed, I lucked out with the weather on that trip -- all my outdoor activities (e.g., the Billy Joel concert, the Event Horizon party, the Hurricane Harbor trip) were met with clear blue skies! I don't even mind rain -- the flash floods at Starwood, for instance, had quite a powerful appeal -- but the consistently gray drizzle is not to my liking.

Enough grousing, though! The above paragraph just about fills my quota for the month! There are plenty of nifty things happening, so I shall focus my attentions on them.

For starters, I should note that, as I type this, The Boy is providing great entertainment by getting excessively drunk on catnip. [livejournal.com profile] resourceress found a place that sells particularly potent catnip toys and we just restocked our supply. Meanwhile, the kitten -- who has been named "Aethelbert of Giles", or just "Giles" for short -- is sitting nearby and watching. It is very cute! He doesn't understand yet what catnip is -- he is too young for it to affect him.

Next, I am pleased to say that -- at long last -- my coins from the Royal Mint came in while I was away. I now have a complete uncirculated set of the new Royal Shield of Arms series! In actual circulation, all I have so far is the 5p coin -- two of them by now -- but I can enjoy the rest under plastic.

While on the topic of nice things, I want to thank [livejournal.com profile] suzaw for the virtual gift that she sent me! That was very sweet of her! And a rubber duck? I love rubber ducks! Don't even get me started on stories about rubber ducks -- especially ones involving [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and [livejournal.com profile] angryjim! [livejournal.com profile] da_pupdetz are pleased with this, too. They actually evolved from ducks and so this gift has certain sacred overtones for them.[**]

Finally, now that I am back in Oxford, it is time to resume some of my regular "extra-curricular activities". [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I started tonight, by going out to see the Creation Theatre Company's outdoor production of Much Ado About Nothing in the courtyard of the Oxford Castle. I had not seen this show before, so it raises my Shakespeare count by one. I have now attended live performances of twenty-three[***] of the Bard's plays, with fourteen[****] more left to go. I very much enjoyed this comedy! Plus, it was a really good production -- I was particularly impressed with the actor playing Benedick and the actor playing Dogberry. Beatrice was pretty good, also, as was Hero. Damn, but the latter was quite compellingly hot when she got all angry at Claudio after her "resurrection"! Claudio himself was a bit too monotonic and left room for improvement. But, hey, they can't all be winners! Adding to the experience was the actual location of the show. The Oxford Castle dates back to 1071, which means that when Shakespeare was writing his plays, it was older than the plays themselves are now! The Castle itself was not explicitly used in the show... but just having its towers constantly in my field of view enhanced the evening for me. What can I say? I like old things!

Anyway, I should be off to bed somewhat soon, so that I might conquer the Deaded Jetlag before the weekend, when [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I will be going away. So, gentle readers, I bid you adieu until the morrow!

[*] I should point out that, while on vacation, I fell way behind in reading my f-list on LiveJournal. Especially after Starwood, where I spent a week having no communication whatsoever with the outside world. If there is something important I should know, please tell me. Otherwise, I think I will not attempt to catch up but, rather, will just jump in to current events. Apologies to all my wonderful friends! And even some of the less wonderful ones!

[**] Indeed, the so-called Big Duck in Flanders, New York, is revered by them as a God.

[***] Eight histories, ten comedies, and five tragedies.

[****] Two histories, six comedies, and six tragedies.


Definitely back in England now. If, for some reason, I were confused about my location, the weather would be a dead giveaway. It is grey, chilly, and wet.

Ah, I miss Summer. At least I had nearly three weeks[*] of it while in the States! Indeed, I lucked out with the weather on that trip -- all my outdoor activities (e.g., the Billy Joel concert, the Event Horizon party, the Hurricane Harbor trip) were met with clear blue skies! I don't even mind rain -- the flash floods at Starwood, for instance, had quite a powerful appeal -- but the consistently gray drizzle is not to my liking.

Enough grousing, though! The above paragraph just about fills my quota for the month! There are plenty of nifty things happening, so I shall focus my attentions on them.

For starters, I should note that, as I type this, The Boy is providing great entertainment by getting excessively drunk on catnip. [livejournal.com profile] resourceress found a place that sells particularly potent catnip toys and we just restocked our supply. Meanwhile, the kitten -- who has been named "Aethelbert of Giles", or just "Giles" for short -- is sitting nearby and watching. It is very cute! He doesn't understand yet what catnip is -- he is too young for it to affect him.

Next, I am pleased to say that -- at long last -- my coins from the Royal Mint came in while I was away. I now have a complete uncirculated set of the new Royal Shield of Arms series! In actual circulation, all I have so far is the 5p coin -- two of them by now -- but I can enjoy the rest under plastic.

While on the topic of nice things, I want to thank [livejournal.com profile] suzaw for the virtual gift that she sent me! That was very sweet of her! And a rubber duck? I love rubber ducks! Don't even get me started on stories about rubber ducks -- especially ones involving [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and [livejournal.com profile] angryjim! [livejournal.com profile] da_pupdetz are pleased with this, too. They actually evolved from ducks and so this gift has certain sacred overtones for them.[**]

Finally, now that I am back in Oxford, it is time to resume some of my regular "extra-curricular activities". [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I started tonight, by going out to see the Creation Theatre Company's outdoor production of Much Ado About Nothing in the courtyard of the Oxford Castle. I had not seen this show before, so it raises my Shakespeare count by one. I have now attended live performances of twenty-three[***] of the Bard's plays, with fourteen[****] more left to go. I very much enjoyed this comedy! Plus, it was a really good production -- I was particularly impressed with the actor playing Benedick and the actor playing Dogberry. Beatrice was pretty good, also, as was Hero. Damn, but the latter was quite compellingly hot when she got all angry at Claudio after her "resurrection"! Claudio himself was a bit too monotonic and left room for improvement. But, hey, they can't all be winners! Adding to the experience was the actual location of the show. The Oxford Castle dates back to 1071, which means that when Shakespeare was writing his plays, it was older than the plays themselves are now! The Castle itself was not explicitly used in the show... but just having its towers constantly in my field of view enhanced the evening for me. What can I say? I like old things!

Anyway, I should be off to bed somewhat soon, so that I might conquer the Deaded Jetlag before the weekend, when [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I will be going away. So, gentle readers, I bid you adieu until the morrow!

[*] I should point out that, while on vacation, I fell way behind in reading my f-list on LiveJournal. Especially after Starwood, where I spent a week having no communication whatsoever with the outside world. If there is something important I should know, please tell me. Otherwise, I think I will not attempt to catch up but, rather, will just jump in to current events. Apologies to all my wonderful friends! And even some of the less wonderful ones!

[**] Indeed, the so-called Big Duck in Flanders, New York, is revered by them as a God.

[***] Eight histories, ten comedies, and five tragedies.

[****] Two histories, six comedies, and six tragedies.


Now that was a party! The last guests just left and I really should go to bed. However -- LJ junkie that I am -- I must blog about it first! Besides, Stumpy is curled up behind my head as I sit on the couch so I can cuddle with my baby girl as I write -- bonus!

The party started slowly, with [livejournal.com profile] xirpha (and his horde of food) as the only guest for quite some time. We chatted for a bit and then played games. First was Girl Genius, which I won by a fair margin. Next was St. Petersburg... where I thought I was being trounced but ended up losing by one single point (out of scores around 110 each).

During the second game, momentum began to build. Other guests arrived and we eventually hit a respectable size -- twenty one people. There were definitely some regular attendees who were missed this time... but we somehow managed to force ourselves to have fun without them!

There was, of course, the annual game of Mega-Death Ultra-High Stakes Four Square. This is a top draw of the Event Horizon summer parties, as people flock from near and far to behold the legendary might and majesty that I possess. Alas, this year the game went on for so long that I was eventually ousted in order to fire up the grill and feed people before it got dark. Personally, I think it was all just a devious plot to remove me from the game so that others would stand a chance at winning. After all, all who behold my prowess at Four Square know fear![*]

Once I left the Four Square game, I flipped burgers until enough meat -- and meat substitute -- had been grilled to satisfy all. Then our local firemaster [livejournal.com profile] gyades -- freshly off the plane from Sweden -- started up a bonfire in our firepit. It went on for several hours, with groups congregating both around the fire and inside the house. I flittered back and forth between the two, so as to spend time with all my friends while I am here.

For this party, I wore my new Utilikilt -- many thanks to [livejournal.com profile] gyades and [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism for the gift! It was as big a hit here as it was at Starwood... with several lovely ladies diligently making sure that I was wearing it in the proper fashion! Additionally, at some point after dinner I was lucky enough had the misfortune of being administered some birthday spankings. And it isn't even my birthday!

The entire day was much fun. However, I think that two points stand out as highlights. One is that, after the bonfire had burned down to glowing embers, I had my first -- and second! -- attempt at firewalking. The impossibly adorable C[**] knows how to do this and she demonstrated. Afterward, R[**] decided that he would give it a try. I had not intended to sample firewalking -- really I hadn't! Indeed, one person joked that I was next and I laughed it off. Except that after R's attempt -- which was moderately successful -- I found myself getting up and standing next to the coals, then walking across them. I definitely need more practice before I can consider myself competent at this -- the soles of both feet are slightly burned right now -- but I gave it two decent attempts! So, yeah, I tried firewalking tonight! How cool is that???[***]

The other highlight was near the end of the evening, when a small army of intoxicating women took it upon themselves to make me quite drunk... without imbibing a drop of alcohol. I won't divulge any more details on this, except to say that their cunning plan was most definitely a success. I needed to avoid the firepit for a while thereafter, as I could not trust myself to walk in a straight line!

When the Event Horizon was my primary home, there would be bi-monthly parties. Now that I live in Oxford, these are obviously less frequent. Nonetheless, the annual summer party is consistently a great success -- looking back, I recall how much fun the party was last year and the year before! It is times like this -- both today's party and the entire week that I have been here -- that make me remember how much I enjoyed living here. It was a good life, shared with many wonderful friends. To be sure, I also very much enjoy living in Oxford and the life that I have been building there... but that doesn't mean that I don't miss my previous life. Ah, if only I had the powers of Jamie Madrox! In any case, I am grateful that I can still re-visit my life -- and dear friends -- in Chicago every now and then.

[*] The neighbors' children seemed greatly amused by our game, whereas their parents seemed somewhat annoyed at the ruckus.

[**] If these people have LJs, I do not know their names. If you do, please fill me in!

[***] No thermal jokes, please. Too obvious. If you must make a pun -- and I fully understand the compulsion -- try for something more clever.


Now that was a party! The last guests just left and I really should go to bed. However -- LJ junkie that I am -- I must blog about it first! Besides, Stumpy is curled up behind my head as I sit on the couch so I can cuddle with my baby girl as I write -- bonus!

The party started slowly, with [livejournal.com profile] xirpha (and his horde of food) as the only guest for quite some time. We chatted for a bit and then played games. First was Girl Genius, which I won by a fair margin. Next was St. Petersburg... where I thought I was being trounced but ended up losing by one single point (out of scores around 110 each).

During the second game, momentum began to build. Other guests arrived and we eventually hit a respectable size -- twenty one people. There were definitely some regular attendees who were missed this time... but we somehow managed to force ourselves to have fun without them!

There was, of course, the annual game of Mega-Death Ultra-High Stakes Four Square. This is a top draw of the Event Horizon summer parties, as people flock from near and far to behold the legendary might and majesty that I possess. Alas, this year the game went on for so long that I was eventually ousted in order to fire up the grill and feed people before it got dark. Personally, I think it was all just a devious plot to remove me from the game so that others would stand a chance at winning. After all, all who behold my prowess at Four Square know fear![*]

Once I left the Four Square game, I flipped burgers until enough meat -- and meat substitute -- had been grilled to satisfy all. Then our local firemaster [livejournal.com profile] gyades -- freshly off the plane from Sweden -- started up a bonfire in our firepit. It went on for several hours, with groups congregating both around the fire and inside the house. I flittered back and forth between the two, so as to spend time with all my friends while I am here.

For this party, I wore my new Utilikilt -- many thanks to [livejournal.com profile] gyades and [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and [livejournal.com profile] polymorphism for the gift! It was as big a hit here as it was at Starwood... with several lovely ladies diligently making sure that I was wearing it in the proper fashion! Additionally, at some point after dinner I was lucky enough had the misfortune of being administered some birthday spankings. And it isn't even my birthday!

The entire day was much fun. However, I think that two points stand out as highlights. One is that, after the bonfire had burned down to glowing embers, I had my first -- and second! -- attempt at firewalking. The impossibly adorable C[**] knows how to do this and she demonstrated. Afterward, R[**] decided that he would give it a try. I had not intended to sample firewalking -- really I hadn't! Indeed, one person joked that I was next and I laughed it off. Except that after R's attempt -- which was moderately successful -- I found myself getting up and standing next to the coals, then walking across them. I definitely need more practice before I can consider myself competent at this -- the soles of both feet are slightly burned right now -- but I gave it two decent attempts! So, yeah, I tried firewalking tonight! How cool is that???[***]

The other highlight was near the end of the evening, when a small army of intoxicating women took it upon themselves to make me quite drunk... without imbibing a drop of alcohol. I won't divulge any more details on this, except to say that their cunning plan was most definitely a success. I needed to avoid the firepit for a while thereafter, as I could not trust myself to walk in a straight line!

When the Event Horizon was my primary home, there would be bi-monthly parties. Now that I live in Oxford, these are obviously less frequent. Nonetheless, the annual summer party is consistently a great success -- looking back, I recall how much fun the party was last year and the year before! It is times like this -- both today's party and the entire week that I have been here -- that make me remember how much I enjoyed living here. It was a good life, shared with many wonderful friends. To be sure, I also very much enjoy living in Oxford and the life that I have been building there... but that doesn't mean that I don't miss my previous life. Ah, if only I had the powers of Jamie Madrox! In any case, I am grateful that I can still re-visit my life -- and dear friends -- in Chicago every now and then.

[*] The neighbors' children seemed greatly amused by our game, whereas their parents seemed somewhat annoyed at the ruckus.

[**] If these people have LJs, I do not know their names. If you do, please fill me in!

[***] No thermal jokes, please. Too obvious. If you must make a pun -- and I fully understand the compulsion -- try for something more clever.


anarchist_nomad: (Mailbox Madness!)
( Jul. 16th, 2008 04:59 pm)
[Am writing this entry from Heathrow and am uninterested in having my wallet gouged for internet access. Will post later and backdate.]

This past weekend saw the 0.5 year anniversary of my relationship with the delightful [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic on Saturday and, as previously mentioned, my 33 1/3 anniversary of my birth on Sunday. To celebrate these happy occasions, the irresistible [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic and I embarked on our first weekend getaway together.

Saturday morning, we set out from Skullcrusher Mountain bright and early in my [as yet unnamed] "new" Rover, heading North. We arrived at our destination -- Belvoir Castle[*] in Leicestershire -- just after they opened their doors at 11am. Belvoir[**] has been the site of a castle on a hill -- hence the name, meaning "good view" -- from Norman times, when it was built for Billy the Conquerer by Robert de Todeni. Eventually, it was granted to the de Ros family in 1257. Since then, there have been several castles on the spot, as previous incarnations were destroyed by the War of the Roses (1460s), the Civil War (1640s), and a great fire (1816). The castle has been the home of the Manners family since the 16th century -- Thomas Manners being created Earl of Rutland in 1525 by his second cousin, Henry VIII... and his descendant John Manners, the ninth Earl, being promoted to Duke of Rutland by Queen Anne in 1703.

When we arrived at Belvoir, the weather was surprisingly good. Predictions had called for rain all weekend, so we decided to take advantage of the relative dryness to explore the garden first. After all, we could always flee inside the castle if and when the rain came. We spent over two hours strolling through the various gardens -- sculpture garden, duchess garden, pet cemetery, woodland walk, et cetera -- but the rain only ever came in light, short[***] bursts. The gardens were quite nice, though we were vexed by our inability to locate a letter "B". You see, in the trees of Belvoir are hung large wooden letters[****]. We first noticed an "E" and later an "O"; eventually, we had found a total of "E", "L", "V", "O", "I", "R" -- it stood to reason that there was a "B" hidden in there somewhere, but we simply could not find it! We even asked the staff inside the castle, but it was not to be found!

After exploring the gardens to our content, we embarked on a tour of the house. It was, of course, ridiculously opulent in that style which both amazes me with its beauty and disgusts me by the stark manner in which it emphasises inequality of wealth. Interestingly enough, the fifth duchess was an amateur architect... and designed much of the current building herself after the great fire. I will say that she did quite a nice job of it! Besides the house itself, I think that I was most impressed by the picture gallery. In it was an entertaining 17th painting by David Teniers the Younger entitled The Proverbs, illustrating many Dutch proverbs. Best of all, there was a copy of the famous portrait of Henry VIII that Hans Holbein the Younger originally painted (1537) as a mural in the Palace of Whitehall. Although I first thought the Belvoir painting to be the original -- and was gleefully awed by it as if it were -- that painting no longer exists; it was destroyed when the palace burned down in 1698. However, this copy is still impressive enough in its own right!

Before proceeding further, here are some photographs of the castle and grounds )

After leaving the castle, we drove further north, to the quaint little city of Lincoln. We checked into our hotel, which was well located in the city centre. Indeed, our accommodations were less than a five minute walk from the two main attractions of Lincoln: Its Castle and its Cathedral.

Once we had settled in, we took advantage of the excellent weather to explore the city. We started off by finding an old Roman arch, still actively used for traffic today -- despite wars and runaway lorries that have tried to do it in!

The Newport Arch in Lincoln


We located two very old homes, known as the Norman House and the Jew's House, both of which were constructed in the twelfth century. Today, the Norman House appears to be a shop and the Jew's House is home to an upscale restaurant. We poked our head in, but did not eat there. We made our way down a street known as "Steep Hill" because -- you guessed it -- it traverses a steep hill. At the bottom was the canal and the waterfront nightlife. Having found our main goals from Lincoln -- leaving Castle and Cathedral for the next day -- we climbed back up the Steep Hill and got an excellent Thai meal for dinner. Finally, we retired to our hotel relatively early and continued our anniversary celebrations in private.

Sunday began with a full English breakfast at the hotel. Indeed, it seems like the only time I eat these is when I am travelling. Just one more excuse to travel, then! Following breakfast, we checked out of the hotel and proceeded to take in the Cathedral and Castle, both of which were built on the orders of old Conquering Bill. On the way there, we stopped to admire an old postbox, twin of my favourite postbox in Oxford:

At it again!


At the Castle, we climbed the observatory tower -- ostensibly constructed for security, but actually more used for amateur astronomy -- and took a stroll along the castle walls. As with so many castles, parts of it have been used as a prison through the years. Indeed, there is still an active courthouse on the site. We decided to skip the old prison buildings and, instead, enjoyed the site of an old Roman well, a keep, the remains of an Eleanor Cross, and a peaceful graveyard. Best of all, though, was the Magna Carta exhibit! Lincoln Castle is home to one of the four surviving original Magna Cartas, sealed by King John in 1215! I have already seen one -- in Salisbury Cathedral -- now I am up to two! Two more to go! Luckily, the Magna Carta is kept encased in glass; this prevented me from drooling upon it!

The Observatory Tower at Lincoln Castle


As for the Cathedral: Well, it is not as spectacular as some of the others that I have seen -- for instance, York Minster or Canterbury Cathedral. Still, it is quite magnificent[*****] and well worth a visit. In particular, I was impressed by the West Front.

The West Front of Lincoln Cathedral


Of particular historical interest is some of the bodies whose remains are kept there. Katherine Swynford is there -- she was the third wife of John of Gaunt, making her step-mother to the usurping Henry IV as well as ancestor of Henry VII and the Tudor dynasty. The tomb of Eleanor of Castile -- first wife of Edward I and the one for whom the Eleanor Crosses were erected -- is also located there. As we toured, I was impressed by [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic's knowledge of English history. I have already been impressed by many of the other fine, er, virtues that she possesses... but I had not realised before how educated she is in English history. Since this is a fascination that I share, it only serves to make her all the more appealing. Interestingly enough, our knowledge seems complementary: I know more about the older monarchs (especially in pre-Norman times) and have a better memory for dates; she has much better knowledge of consorts and knows a fair bit of trivia that I did not.[******]

Of special interest to me was learning that Bishop Richard Fleming of Lincoln Cathedral had been the one to found Lincoln College in Oxford, back in 1427.

Eventually, we saw all we had come to see in Lincoln so we drove back down to Oxford. I brought [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic to the coach station so she could return to London, then proceeded to spend the rest of the evening sequestered with [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat, as we celebrated my third-of-a-century anniversary with some quality alone time of our own.

Highlights from the week, in brief, include:

Monday, I brought our new kitten -- Aethelbert of Giles[*******] to the vet for his first visit. Although he does have fleas and, being a kitten, we assume worms, his health is otherwise good. At eight weeks old, he weighs 1.9 pounds -- fairly big for a kitten his age -- has a glossy coat, bright eyes, and firm stools. I am very pleased to hear it, as the little fellow is fast growing on [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I! We gave him his first jab and brought home meds for worming and de-fleaing both him and The Boy.

Monday evening was the last ice skating lesson of this term. Since we had all passed the level five test, we spent the lesson learning the level six skills. These include: (a) Continuous backward chassés around a circle, (b) Forward two-foot slalom, (c) Forward outside 3-turn, and (d) Backward skating, stepping forward in both directions. The next term at the rink does not start until September, so knowing the skills now gives me a chance to practice them before the next class begins. It also gives me time to purchase and break in my own pair of skates!

Tuesday evening, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I went to see the Oxford Theatre Guild perform As You Like It at the Trinity College Gardens. [livejournal.com profile] resourceress and I saw them do The Tempest there two years ago. This was not a new play for me, so my Shakespeare count does not go up. I saw the British Shakespeare Company perform this play last year at the Wadham College Gardens. Still, the performance was enjoyable and it was nice to take in the gardens again.

Which brings us to the present -- Wednesday -- when I am off to the States for my summer vacation. Back in Oxford in just under three weeks time, on August 4th. New York City, Starwood, and Chicago: Look out, here I come!


[*] It appears to be a new tradition that I visit a castle in early July, the weekend before heading to the States for my summer vacation / Starwood trip. Last year, the lucky destination was Leeds Castle.

[**] Pronounced "beaver", believe it or not!

[***] "Short" == "Two or three minutes long"

[****] And one inexplicable giant metal hula hoop! (Don't ask!)

[*****] And, I must confess, more impressive than our beloved local cathedral at Christ Church.

[******] Since [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat is also more knowledgeable than I am in the area of early ecclesiastical history, it appears that I am well situated to have stimulating conversations with both my UK-based partners on this topic and we all stand to learn much from each other. This is a Good Thing.

[*******] "Bertie" or "Giles" for short.


anarchist_nomad: (Mailbox Madness!)
( Jul. 16th, 2008 04:59 pm)
[Am writing this entry from Heathrow and am uninterested in having my wallet gouged for internet access. Will post later and backdate.]

This past weekend saw the 0.5 year anniversary of my relationship with the delightful [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic on Saturday and, as previously mentioned, my 33 1/3 anniversary of my birth on Sunday. To celebrate these happy occasions, the irresistible [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic and I embarked on our first weekend getaway together.

Saturday morning, we set out from Skullcrusher Mountain bright and early in my [as yet unnamed] "new" Rover, heading North. We arrived at our destination -- Belvoir Castle[*] in Leicestershire -- just after they opened their doors at 11am. Belvoir[**] has been the site of a castle on a hill -- hence the name, meaning "good view" -- from Norman times, when it was built for Billy the Conquerer by Robert de Todeni. Eventually, it was granted to the de Ros family in 1257. Since then, there have been several castles on the spot, as previous incarnations were destroyed by the War of the Roses (1460s), the Civil War (1640s), and a great fire (1816). The castle has been the home of the Manners family since the 16th century -- Thomas Manners being created Earl of Rutland in 1525 by his second cousin, Henry VIII... and his descendant John Manners, the ninth Earl, being promoted to Duke of Rutland by Queen Anne in 1703.

When we arrived at Belvoir, the weather was surprisingly good. Predictions had called for rain all weekend, so we decided to take advantage of the relative dryness to explore the garden first. After all, we could always flee inside the castle if and when the rain came. We spent over two hours strolling through the various gardens -- sculpture garden, duchess garden, pet cemetery, woodland walk, et cetera -- but the rain only ever came in light, short[***] bursts. The gardens were quite nice, though we were vexed by our inability to locate a letter "B". You see, in the trees of Belvoir are hung large wooden letters[****]. We first noticed an "E" and later an "O"; eventually, we had found a total of "E", "L", "V", "O", "I", "R" -- it stood to reason that there was a "B" hidden in there somewhere, but we simply could not find it! We even asked the staff inside the castle, but it was not to be found!

After exploring the gardens to our content, we embarked on a tour of the house. It was, of course, ridiculously opulent in that style which both amazes me with its beauty and disgusts me by the stark manner in which it emphasises inequality of wealth. Interestingly enough, the fifth duchess was an amateur architect... and designed much of the current building herself after the great fire. I will say that she did quite a nice job of it! Besides the house itself, I think that I was most impressed by the picture gallery. In it was an entertaining 17th painting by David Teniers the Younger entitled The Proverbs, illustrating many Dutch proverbs. Best of all, there was a copy of the famous portrait of Henry VIII that Hans Holbein the Younger originally painted (1537) as a mural in the Palace of Whitehall. Although I first thought the Belvoir painting to be the original -- and was gleefully awed by it as if it were -- that painting no longer exists; it was destroyed when the palace burned down in 1698. However, this copy is still impressive enough in its own right!

Before proceeding further, here are some photographs of the castle and grounds )

After leaving the castle, we drove further north, to the quaint little city of Lincoln. We checked into our hotel, which was well located in the city centre. Indeed, our accommodations were less than a five minute walk from the two main attractions of Lincoln: Its Castle and its Cathedral.

Once we had settled in, we took advantage of the excellent weather to explore the city. We started off by finding an old Roman arch, still actively used for traffic today -- despite wars and runaway lorries that have tried to do it in!

The Newport Arch in Lincoln


We located two very old homes, known as the Norman House and the Jew's House, both of which were constructed in the twelfth century. Today, the Norman House appears to be a shop and the Jew's House is home to an upscale restaurant. We poked our head in, but did not eat there. We made our way down a street known as "Steep Hill" because -- you guessed it -- it traverses a steep hill. At the bottom was the canal and the waterfront nightlife. Having found our main goals from Lincoln -- leaving Castle and Cathedral for the next day -- we climbed back up the Steep Hill and got an excellent Thai meal for dinner. Finally, we retired to our hotel relatively early and continued our anniversary celebrations in private.

Sunday began with a full English breakfast at the hotel. Indeed, it seems like the only time I eat these is when I am travelling. Just one more excuse to travel, then! Following breakfast, we checked out of the hotel and proceeded to take in the Cathedral and Castle, both of which were built on the orders of old Conquering Bill. On the way there, we stopped to admire an old postbox, twin of my favourite postbox in Oxford:

At it again!


At the Castle, we climbed the observatory tower -- ostensibly constructed for security, but actually more used for amateur astronomy -- and took a stroll along the castle walls. As with so many castles, parts of it have been used as a prison through the years. Indeed, there is still an active courthouse on the site. We decided to skip the old prison buildings and, instead, enjoyed the site of an old Roman well, a keep, the remains of an Eleanor Cross, and a peaceful graveyard. Best of all, though, was the Magna Carta exhibit! Lincoln Castle is home to one of the four surviving original Magna Cartas, sealed by King John in 1215! I have already seen one -- in Salisbury Cathedral -- now I am up to two! Two more to go! Luckily, the Magna Carta is kept encased in glass; this prevented me from drooling upon it!

The Observatory Tower at Lincoln Castle


As for the Cathedral: Well, it is not as spectacular as some of the others that I have seen -- for instance, York Minster or Canterbury Cathedral. Still, it is quite magnificent[*****] and well worth a visit. In particular, I was impressed by the West Front.

The West Front of Lincoln Cathedral


Of particular historical interest is some of the bodies whose remains are kept there. Katherine Swynford is there -- she was the third wife of John of Gaunt, making her step-mother to the usurping Henry IV as well as ancestor of Henry VII and the Tudor dynasty. The tomb of Eleanor of Castile -- first wife of Edward I and the one for whom the Eleanor Crosses were erected -- is also located there. As we toured, I was impressed by [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic's knowledge of English history. I have already been impressed by many of the other fine, er, virtues that she possesses... but I had not realised before how educated she is in English history. Since this is a fascination that I share, it only serves to make her all the more appealing. Interestingly enough, our knowledge seems complementary: I know more about the older monarchs (especially in pre-Norman times) and have a better memory for dates; she has much better knowledge of consorts and knows a fair bit of trivia that I did not.[******]

Of special interest to me was learning that Bishop Richard Fleming of Lincoln Cathedral had been the one to found Lincoln College in Oxford, back in 1427.

Eventually, we saw all we had come to see in Lincoln so we drove back down to Oxford. I brought [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic to the coach station so she could return to London, then proceeded to spend the rest of the evening sequestered with [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat, as we celebrated my third-of-a-century anniversary with some quality alone time of our own.

Highlights from the week, in brief, include:

Monday, I brought our new kitten -- Aethelbert of Giles[*******] to the vet for his first visit. Although he does have fleas and, being a kitten, we assume worms, his health is otherwise good. At eight weeks old, he weighs 1.9 pounds -- fairly big for a kitten his age -- has a glossy coat, bright eyes, and firm stools. I am very pleased to hear it, as the little fellow is fast growing on [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I! We gave him his first jab and brought home meds for worming and de-fleaing both him and The Boy.

Monday evening was the last ice skating lesson of this term. Since we had all passed the level five test, we spent the lesson learning the level six skills. These include: (a) Continuous backward chassés around a circle, (b) Forward two-foot slalom, (c) Forward outside 3-turn, and (d) Backward skating, stepping forward in both directions. The next term at the rink does not start until September, so knowing the skills now gives me a chance to practice them before the next class begins. It also gives me time to purchase and break in my own pair of skates!

Tuesday evening, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I went to see the Oxford Theatre Guild perform As You Like It at the Trinity College Gardens. [livejournal.com profile] resourceress and I saw them do The Tempest there two years ago. This was not a new play for me, so my Shakespeare count does not go up. I saw the British Shakespeare Company perform this play last year at the Wadham College Gardens. Still, the performance was enjoyable and it was nice to take in the gardens again.

Which brings us to the present -- Wednesday -- when I am off to the States for my summer vacation. Back in Oxford in just under three weeks time, on August 4th. New York City, Starwood, and Chicago: Look out, here I come!


[*] It appears to be a new tradition that I visit a castle in early July, the weekend before heading to the States for my summer vacation / Starwood trip. Last year, the lucky destination was Leeds Castle.

[**] Pronounced "beaver", believe it or not!

[***] "Short" == "Two or three minutes long"

[****] And one inexplicable giant metal hula hoop! (Don't ask!)

[*****] And, I must confess, more impressive than our beloved local cathedral at Christ Church.

[******] Since [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat is also more knowledgeable than I am in the area of early ecclesiastical history, it appears that I am well situated to have stimulating conversations with both my UK-based partners on this topic and we all stand to learn much from each other. This is a Good Thing.

[*******] "Bertie" or "Giles" for short.


Quick[?] update on various and sundry. I have divided this update into sections, so read only those that may be of interest to you:

Skating: This is the second to last week of the current term, so we finished testing out on the level five skills. I passed the final one -- backwards one foot glides -- and am now officially NISA Level Five certified. I am such a dork -- I continued collecting the little badges that show what level I have passed. We started on level six skills, as there will be a large gap after our last class next week and the following term, which begins on September 8th. By introducing these skills now, I can practice them in-between terms. Also, I plan to buy my own pair of skates when I am in the States later this month. Does anyone in the Chicago (or New York) area know of a skate shop that they would recommend?

Kittens: Gave back Leo, our "loaner kitten", yesterday. He is a sweet boy, and we were sad to see him go. However, I was grateful that we had him for a week and a half, as he helped to transition our [still-nameless] kitten from a life with his mum and three siblings to life with us. By now, The Boy is getting grudgingly tolerant of the new kitten and, as of yesterday evening, we are allowing them to interact together unsupervised. When we are home, they get full run of the flat; when we are asleep or away, we lock them out of a couple of rooms that have not yet been kitten-proofed. Last night, the kitten slept on my pillow, leaning on my head. He is so adorable!!! I was ridiculously pleased, though I did sleep somewhat restlessly, as I was nervous about rolling over and crushing him.

Bells: Participated in a quarter peal attempt at St. Giles last night. Previously, I had rung a quarter peal in April, on the covering tenor. This is the easiest position to ring. It was a six bell method (Cambridge Surprise Minor), so the first six bells mixed up their order... and then I always rang in the sevenths place, after they had all done their bit. It was an accomplishment for me, but the simplest that ringing a quarter peal can be. Yesterday's attempt took the challenge up a notch: We rang a seven bell method (Grandsire Triples). There was a covering tenor -- see the constant position of the #8 bell in the link -- but that was not my job. I rang the next easiest position, that of the treble (the #1 bell). If you look at the link, you can see that the treble moves ("hunts") repeatedly from the front to the back, and then returns. Harder than a covering tenor, but easier than the job of every other bell. I was very nervous about this and not sure if I was up to keeping my ringing from going wrong for the forty-five minutes it takes to ring a quarter peal. In the end, our attempt was not successful. We made it through about 740 of the 1260 changes. This is disappointing, of course. However, I take some comfort that it was not I who caused the band to go wrong. Much to my surprise, I did remarkably well at holding the correct place and at maintaining good striking. One of the other ringers, on an inside bell, went off course... and this caused a domino effect that ended our attempt. I will try again in September and, based on how well I managed to do this time, am reasonably optimistic that I will succeed.

Car: Am very much enjoying the new car. It is the same colour as Pazu -- my 1998 Honda Civic that I bought new and drove for eight years, until I moved to Oxford. The battery would not hold a charge, though, so I got a guy from the AA to look for it. Given that I am a member, this was free... so why not? He confirmed that the problem was the battery, not the alternator nor a short in the wiring. No problem -- I went out and bought a new battery. While we were chatting, he mentioned that the Rover 400 engines are made by Honda. This news made me happy, as I have the utmost respect for Honda engines! When I mentioned that I paid £300 for the car, he seemed surprised... and jokingly offered me £400 for it. Despite the cheap price, I think that I may be holding onto this car for awhile; it seems like it is in very good shape! Indeed, in the anticipation of driving it for a few years, I ordered a new stereo for the car today. He went on to say that the Rover 400s are basically the same as Honda Civics. I had noticed a fair bit of similarity, actually. I liked my Civic very much and am rather pleased to [sort of] have it back -- with the added bonus of a sunroof! Finally, it dawned on me that I now own a red Rover. That is just cool!

Social: This afternoon, a few hours before our skating lesson, I got a text from KF asking me if I wanted to go out for coffee and then hit the rink for extra practice before our lesson. This was a pleasant addition to my day, as I have had a crush on her for months. We have quite a few interests in common -- SCUBA diving, traveling, history, skating, whitewater rafting -- and I would very much like to get to know her better. The pseudo-date went pretty well, so I find myself wondering what might happen next. I will confess to being nervous, because I have not met her through the polyamorous community, the sci-fi community, or the Pagan community. Thus far, everyone I have ever had a relationship with since [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I became polyamourous eleven years ago has come from one of those three worlds -- worlds that are well acquainted with and accepting of polyamoury. Although KF knows that I am polyamorous, I am not sure how willing she is to set her toes into these waters. There certainly seems to be a mutual attraction there... how far it can or will go, though, is still up in the air.

Theatre: On Friday evening, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I drove down to Abingdon to see a production of Alan Ayckbourn's play Improbable Fiction. This is, I believe, the second Ayckbourn show that I have seen -- the first being A Trip To Scarborough back in February. Like that show, Improbable Fiction is a bit surreal, and involves a juxtaposition of multiple disjoint locations. It was good fun, though. Perhaps even more impressive than the play was the theatre itself. We saw this production at the Unicorn Theatre, which is housed in a building that used to be a medieval abbey from the seventh to the sixteenth century. With my love of old buildings, this experience was really quite the treat!

Weekend: On Saturday, my beloved [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and the adorable [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic and I took a day trip to the Savill Garden, part of the Royal Landscape near Windsor. The gardens themselves were quite pretty and -- as an added bonus -- there was a sculpture exhibition. Fifty-eight pieces of art were placed at various and sundry points throughout the garden, ranging from annoyingly abstract pieces to lovable penguins and ducks to an awesome velociraptor! The weather, which should have been rainy, cooperated with us remarkably well, making for a very nice day out. After leaving the gardens, we topped off our day with a stop at the Monkey's Forehead for dinner and drinks... just because it has the coolest pub name ever!

On Sunday, I dropped [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic off at the Oxford Castle so that she could celebrate [livejournal.com profile] thirteen_ravens's birthday party. With the exception of cycling to St. Giles church for the quarter peal attempt, the rest of the day was spent sharing some quality alone time with [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat. We were both a bit shaken by the postponement of her surgery last week... so having this time was significant and important to us both.

.......and that's all the news for tonight. Tune in next time, gentle reader, for fun-filled photos from this weekend and video of kittens playing!
Quick[?] update on various and sundry. I have divided this update into sections, so read only those that may be of interest to you:

Skating: This is the second to last week of the current term, so we finished testing out on the level five skills. I passed the final one -- backwards one foot glides -- and am now officially NISA Level Five certified. I am such a dork -- I continued collecting the little badges that show what level I have passed. We started on level six skills, as there will be a large gap after our last class next week and the following term, which begins on September 8th. By introducing these skills now, I can practice them in-between terms. Also, I plan to buy my own pair of skates when I am in the States later this month. Does anyone in the Chicago (or New York) area know of a skate shop that they would recommend?

Kittens: Gave back Leo, our "loaner kitten", yesterday. He is a sweet boy, and we were sad to see him go. However, I was grateful that we had him for a week and a half, as he helped to transition our [still-nameless] kitten from a life with his mum and three siblings to life with us. By now, The Boy is getting grudgingly tolerant of the new kitten and, as of yesterday evening, we are allowing them to interact together unsupervised. When we are home, they get full run of the flat; when we are asleep or away, we lock them out of a couple of rooms that have not yet been kitten-proofed. Last night, the kitten slept on my pillow, leaning on my head. He is so adorable!!! I was ridiculously pleased, though I did sleep somewhat restlessly, as I was nervous about rolling over and crushing him.

Bells: Participated in a quarter peal attempt at St. Giles last night. Previously, I had rung a quarter peal in April, on the covering tenor. This is the easiest position to ring. It was a six bell method (Cambridge Surprise Minor), so the first six bells mixed up their order... and then I always rang in the sevenths place, after they had all done their bit. It was an accomplishment for me, but the simplest that ringing a quarter peal can be. Yesterday's attempt took the challenge up a notch: We rang a seven bell method (Grandsire Triples). There was a covering tenor -- see the constant position of the #8 bell in the link -- but that was not my job. I rang the next easiest position, that of the treble (the #1 bell). If you look at the link, you can see that the treble moves ("hunts") repeatedly from the front to the back, and then returns. Harder than a covering tenor, but easier than the job of every other bell. I was very nervous about this and not sure if I was up to keeping my ringing from going wrong for the forty-five minutes it takes to ring a quarter peal. In the end, our attempt was not successful. We made it through about 740 of the 1260 changes. This is disappointing, of course. However, I take some comfort that it was not I who caused the band to go wrong. Much to my surprise, I did remarkably well at holding the correct place and at maintaining good striking. One of the other ringers, on an inside bell, went off course... and this caused a domino effect that ended our attempt. I will try again in September and, based on how well I managed to do this time, am reasonably optimistic that I will succeed.

Car: Am very much enjoying the new car. It is the same colour as Pazu -- my 1998 Honda Civic that I bought new and drove for eight years, until I moved to Oxford. The battery would not hold a charge, though, so I got a guy from the AA to look for it. Given that I am a member, this was free... so why not? He confirmed that the problem was the battery, not the alternator nor a short in the wiring. No problem -- I went out and bought a new battery. While we were chatting, he mentioned that the Rover 400 engines are made by Honda. This news made me happy, as I have the utmost respect for Honda engines! When I mentioned that I paid £300 for the car, he seemed surprised... and jokingly offered me £400 for it. Despite the cheap price, I think that I may be holding onto this car for awhile; it seems like it is in very good shape! Indeed, in the anticipation of driving it for a few years, I ordered a new stereo for the car today. He went on to say that the Rover 400s are basically the same as Honda Civics. I had noticed a fair bit of similarity, actually. I liked my Civic very much and am rather pleased to [sort of] have it back -- with the added bonus of a sunroof! Finally, it dawned on me that I now own a red Rover. That is just cool!

Social: This afternoon, a few hours before our skating lesson, I got a text from KF asking me if I wanted to go out for coffee and then hit the rink for extra practice before our lesson. This was a pleasant addition to my day, as I have had a crush on her for months. We have quite a few interests in common -- SCUBA diving, traveling, history, skating, whitewater rafting -- and I would very much like to get to know her better. The pseudo-date went pretty well, so I find myself wondering what might happen next. I will confess to being nervous, because I have not met her through the polyamorous community, the sci-fi community, or the Pagan community. Thus far, everyone I have ever had a relationship with since [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I became polyamourous eleven years ago has come from one of those three worlds -- worlds that are well acquainted with and accepting of polyamoury. Although KF knows that I am polyamorous, I am not sure how willing she is to set her toes into these waters. There certainly seems to be a mutual attraction there... how far it can or will go, though, is still up in the air.

Theatre: On Friday evening, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I drove down to Abingdon to see a production of Alan Ayckbourn's play Improbable Fiction. This is, I believe, the second Ayckbourn show that I have seen -- the first being A Trip To Scarborough back in February. Like that show, Improbable Fiction is a bit surreal, and involves a juxtaposition of multiple disjoint locations. It was good fun, though. Perhaps even more impressive than the play was the theatre itself. We saw this production at the Unicorn Theatre, which is housed in a building that used to be a medieval abbey from the seventh to the sixteenth century. With my love of old buildings, this experience was really quite the treat!

Weekend: On Saturday, my beloved [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and the adorable [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic and I took a day trip to the Savill Garden, part of the Royal Landscape near Windsor. The gardens themselves were quite pretty and -- as an added bonus -- there was a sculpture exhibition. Fifty-eight pieces of art were placed at various and sundry points throughout the garden, ranging from annoyingly abstract pieces to lovable penguins and ducks to an awesome velociraptor! The weather, which should have been rainy, cooperated with us remarkably well, making for a very nice day out. After leaving the gardens, we topped off our day with a stop at the Monkey's Forehead for dinner and drinks... just because it has the coolest pub name ever!

On Sunday, I dropped [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic off at the Oxford Castle so that she could celebrate [livejournal.com profile] thirteen_ravens's birthday party. With the exception of cycling to St. Giles church for the quarter peal attempt, the rest of the day was spent sharing some quality alone time with [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat. We were both a bit shaken by the postponement of her surgery last week... so having this time was significant and important to us both.

.......and that's all the news for tonight. Tune in next time, gentle reader, for fun-filled photos from this weekend and video of kittens playing!
Highlights from today:

Had a brief conversation with [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic at lunchtime. Nothing particularly significant... but it is always nice to hear her voice.

Rang bells at St. Cross this evening. This was the first time that I rang there in three weeks. It showed. I kinda sucked at the beginning, and even let the rope get away from me once. No injury resulted this time. By the end of the practice, I was doing a little better, though. I got through a touch of Plain Bob Doubles and a plain course of Grandsire Doubles -- both on inside bells -- with no major difficulties!

After ringing, I met [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat at Wadham College, where we watched the Oxford Shakespeare Company perform Twelfth Night in the college gardens. One of the things I really love about summer is all the outdoor theatre! This is the third year that I have seen the OSC perform outside at Wadham -- last year they did Midsummer Night's Dream and, in 2006, I went with [livejournal.com profile] resourceress to see them do both The Taming of the Shrew and The Importance of Being Earnest. This production of Twelfth Night was vastly different than the one that we saw at Lincoln College last month; for one thing, it was extremely odd and quite funny... with a beach theme running through it.

On our return to Skullcrusher Mountain, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat produced a yummy dinner and we decompressed from our days while eating together. Then I phoned up my friend RG[*] and we spent an hour and a half catching up on each others' lives. He won't be at Starwood this year, so I'll not get to see him again until P**T*** in October. On the plus side, he is seriously considering a visit to us here in Oxford!

Finally, I am ending my day by writing this entry while a six and a half week old kitten sits curled up on my shoulder. He got there himself, climbing up from the floor via my trouser leg and then my shirt. Once he gets down, I plan to go to sleep, as it is late. Indeed, this entry probably would not exist if he had not settled there! I would have just gone straight to bed... but you can't just give up something as precious as a kitten perched on your shoulder!

[*] No, not [livejournal.com profile] ashnistrike. A different friend with the RG initials... though also one that attends P**T***.

Highlights from today:

Had a brief conversation with [livejournal.com profile] ms_katonic at lunchtime. Nothing particularly significant... but it is always nice to hear her voice.

Rang bells at St. Cross this evening. This was the first time that I rang there in three weeks. It showed. I kinda sucked at the beginning, and even let the rope get away from me once. No injury resulted this time. By the end of the practice, I was doing a little better, though. I got through a touch of Plain Bob Doubles and a plain course of Grandsire Doubles -- both on inside bells -- with no major difficulties!

After ringing, I met [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat at Wadham College, where we watched the Oxford Shakespeare Company perform Twelfth Night in the college gardens. One of the things I really love about summer is all the outdoor theatre! This is the third year that I have seen the OSC perform outside at Wadham -- last year they did Midsummer Night's Dream and, in 2006, I went with [livejournal.com profile] resourceress to see them do both The Taming of the Shrew and The Importance of Being Earnest. This production of Twelfth Night was vastly different than the one that we saw at Lincoln College last month; for one thing, it was extremely odd and quite funny... with a beach theme running through it.

On our return to Skullcrusher Mountain, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat produced a yummy dinner and we decompressed from our days while eating together. Then I phoned up my friend RG[*] and we spent an hour and a half catching up on each others' lives. He won't be at Starwood this year, so I'll not get to see him again until P**T*** in October. On the plus side, he is seriously considering a visit to us here in Oxford!

Finally, I am ending my day by writing this entry while a six and a half week old kitten sits curled up on my shoulder. He got there himself, climbing up from the floor via my trouser leg and then my shirt. Once he gets down, I plan to go to sleep, as it is late. Indeed, this entry probably would not exist if he had not settled there! I would have just gone straight to bed... but you can't just give up something as precious as a kitten perched on your shoulder!

[*] No, not [livejournal.com profile] ashnistrike. A different friend with the RG initials... though also one that attends P**T***.

Today's major accomplishment was buying a new car. The MOT and road tax on Peter have both just expired and, much as I like that car, the repairs necessary to keep it running were just not reasonable to pay for in a car of that age.

Normally, I would not wait until the day after my car became no longer legal to drive to start searching for its replacement. However, in the past eight days, I have procured a new job[*], a new cat, and now a new car. So one could say I have been just a tad busy.

In any case, things went far better than I had anticipated. A string of unlikely coincidences ended up in me finding a seemingly-reliable car that meets my needs -- red and possessing a sunroof -- while also meeting [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat's -- automatic transmission and a hatchback -- for a mere three hundred pounds.

To wit: I started the day looking at vehicles online. I found a place selling a Peugeot 406 for just under £600. My friend C bought this same car last year, so I rang him up to ask how he liked it. Turns out, he was working a half day and offered to come with me when I went to test drive the car. Nice! He knows quite a bit more about the innards of cars than I do, so his opinion would be welcome... as would the company!

After we got off the phone. I rang the dealer. Setback! The car would be available to see tomorrow, but not today. Hurm. While waiting for C to arrive, I scanned other cars online. For some reason, there are several Rover 400 series cars -- all green -- on the used market right now. I showed the listings to C when he arrived and explained how we could not see the Peugeot today. I suggested that we could look at a couple of the other cars, instead. His reply was completely unexpected: He said that if I liked the Rover 400, his dad had one that he was looking to sell cheaply, because he was simply not able to drive it anymore for health reasons.

We hopped in his car -- recall that mine is no longer street legal -- and drove half an hour to visit his father and the car. It does indeed seem reliable, it comes from a seller I trust, and at three hundred pounds, it was much cheaper than the £1300 that I was willing to pay for a replacement vehicle!

Somehow, I seem to have landed in a patch of very good luck. Quite randomly, the right vehicle -- at a ridiculously good price -- landed right in my lap. Somewhat reminiscent of how, three days after being rejected by the Battersea Dog and Cat Home, the right kitten ended up finding me last month. I have to say, after the cloud of dreadful luck that lingered from December through April, the change is quite welcome! A lot of very important pieces of my life were shattered in that time while the Universe seemed to want to use me as a punching bag. I won't recap the details here; those events have all been mentioned in this journal before. Now is a time for rebuilding... which I am very pleased to say is coming along quite nicely. It has taken much hard work... but those efforts are now coming to fruition.

In the evening, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I celebrated by having [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach over for gaming. We played Puerto Rico and Bohnanza. In both cases, I came in second place. For Puerto Rico, [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach won with 51 points, I had 48, and [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat had 47. In Bohnanza, it was a very tight game: [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat won with 21 points, I followed with 20, and [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach had 19! No breathing room at all!

Finally, after [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach left for the night, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I wound down the evening by watching the classic Red Dwarf episode "Back To Reality". She recently borrowed some Red Dwarf DVDs from the local library. I have not watched the show at all since my 23rd birthday party -- back in 1998 -- where about ten of us spent a three day birthday weekend watching all seven seasons of Red Dwarf. Ah, good times!

Now it is off to bed. I am still not entirely over my cold, so must keep on my rest!

[*] Speaking of the new job, I just learned the salary today. It will start me off -- on Sep 29 -- with a rise of 10% over what I am making now. Two days later, though, is when the annual rises go through... so I will be getting a nearly immediate increase of at least another 2.5%. I have no plans to make dramatic changes to my lifestyle, so this change will be quite useful in helping to rebuild our savings. Between the job news and the car hunt, today has really been quite a remarkably good day!

Today's major accomplishment was buying a new car. The MOT and road tax on Peter have both just expired and, much as I like that car, the repairs necessary to keep it running were just not reasonable to pay for in a car of that age.

Normally, I would not wait until the day after my car became no longer legal to drive to start searching for its replacement. However, in the past eight days, I have procured a new job[*], a new cat, and now a new car. So one could say I have been just a tad busy.

In any case, things went far better than I had anticipated. A string of unlikely coincidences ended up in me finding a seemingly-reliable car that meets my needs -- red and possessing a sunroof -- while also meeting [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat's -- automatic transmission and a hatchback -- for a mere three hundred pounds.

To wit: I started the day looking at vehicles online. I found a place selling a Peugeot 406 for just under £600. My friend C bought this same car last year, so I rang him up to ask how he liked it. Turns out, he was working a half day and offered to come with me when I went to test drive the car. Nice! He knows quite a bit more about the innards of cars than I do, so his opinion would be welcome... as would the company!

After we got off the phone. I rang the dealer. Setback! The car would be available to see tomorrow, but not today. Hurm. While waiting for C to arrive, I scanned other cars online. For some reason, there are several Rover 400 series cars -- all green -- on the used market right now. I showed the listings to C when he arrived and explained how we could not see the Peugeot today. I suggested that we could look at a couple of the other cars, instead. His reply was completely unexpected: He said that if I liked the Rover 400, his dad had one that he was looking to sell cheaply, because he was simply not able to drive it anymore for health reasons.

We hopped in his car -- recall that mine is no longer street legal -- and drove half an hour to visit his father and the car. It does indeed seem reliable, it comes from a seller I trust, and at three hundred pounds, it was much cheaper than the £1300 that I was willing to pay for a replacement vehicle!

Somehow, I seem to have landed in a patch of very good luck. Quite randomly, the right vehicle -- at a ridiculously good price -- landed right in my lap. Somewhat reminiscent of how, three days after being rejected by the Battersea Dog and Cat Home, the right kitten ended up finding me last month. I have to say, after the cloud of dreadful luck that lingered from December through April, the change is quite welcome! A lot of very important pieces of my life were shattered in that time while the Universe seemed to want to use me as a punching bag. I won't recap the details here; those events have all been mentioned in this journal before. Now is a time for rebuilding... which I am very pleased to say is coming along quite nicely. It has taken much hard work... but those efforts are now coming to fruition.

In the evening, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I celebrated by having [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach over for gaming. We played Puerto Rico and Bohnanza. In both cases, I came in second place. For Puerto Rico, [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach won with 51 points, I had 48, and [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat had 47. In Bohnanza, it was a very tight game: [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat won with 21 points, I followed with 20, and [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach had 19! No breathing room at all!

Finally, after [livejournal.com profile] wolfpeach left for the night, [livejournal.com profile] cheshcat and I wound down the evening by watching the classic Red Dwarf episode "Back To Reality". She recently borrowed some Red Dwarf DVDs from the local library. I have not watched the show at all since my 23rd birthday party -- back in 1998 -- where about ten of us spent a three day birthday weekend watching all seven seasons of Red Dwarf. Ah, good times!

Now it is off to bed. I am still not entirely over my cold, so must keep on my rest!

[*] Speaking of the new job, I just learned the salary today. It will start me off -- on Sep 29 -- with a rise of 10% over what I am making now. Two days later, though, is when the annual rises go through... so I will be getting a nearly immediate increase of at least another 2.5%. I have no plans to make dramatic changes to my lifestyle, so this change will be quite useful in helping to rebuild our savings. Between the job news and the car hunt, today has really been quite a remarkably good day!

.

Profile

anarchist_nomad: (Default)
anarchist_nomad

Syndicate

RSS Atom

Most Popular Tags

Powered by Dreamwidth Studios

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags