That fight took a lot of the shine off bi events for me too, I don;t think I have been back to one since which is for many reasons but that played a part in it. Sticking my head over the parapet had me thoroughly sniped for it :-( I actually wonder whether when people like I, known for their confidence and willingness to speak up get so thoroughly abused, others fall silent. I mean, not many people are willing to get in my face and start a fight - when they do that must be pretty intimidating to others (If that makes sense?)
As for that rule? It's a swingers club rule, many swingers clubs that had fetish nights used to use it. I think the "at least one cunt for every cock" rule is pretty sickening tbh.
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Date: 2012-09-27 12:43 pm (UTC)As for that rule? It's a swingers club rule, many swingers clubs that had fetish nights used to use it. I think the "at least one cunt for every cock" rule is pretty sickening tbh.