Right thanks, I did wonder. Actually I'm still wondering why anyone would want to say that, but never mind, That's just my straight, elderly female brain trying to cope with a new idea. Personally I dont really like ANY labels, preferring to think of people as unique individuals. Along the lines of "I'm ME, so why shouldn't you be YOU" sort of theory. I dont feel threatened by most kind of difference anyway - surely difference is what makes us all interesting.