Nods vigorously in agreement. I too am mostly all of the things that you said but have very dear friends and family who are random mixes of the above list (except I havent quite understood what "genderqueer" is supposed to mean) and Samuel Clements was quite right. We must never frighten the horses. Or most other animals for that matter. (I exclude cats here as they are impossible to frighten and merely sit and mock!!)