Duh!!!!
How very ironic. Personally I would say that you are the least "phobic" person I have ever met, but there you go. They wouldnt have wanted to hear my "more or less straight, heterosexual" viewpoint anyway. But heavens. Reinforcing all sorts of stereotypes there - poor little victim females, wicked predatory single men, couples, exclusivity....the list just goes on and on and on...
How very bizarre.